A Reckoning
The paradox of choice
On our last day in Paris, our family had a moment of reckoning. Without diving into every detail, it became clear that our move to Colorado hadn’t been as smooth as we’d hoped. Spending four days near our old home in Maryland before heading to France only deepened our realization. Despite the distance, Maryland still felt like home, even though it no longer was.
Leaving behind a bad job, a toxic relationship, or an unhealthy situation is often straightforward. But in our case, we weren’t running away from anything. We had a wonderful life in Maryland, filled with memories and a strong community. Yet, as a family, we chose to embark on a new adventure, moving to Colorado to be closer to family. It wasn’t a decision made out of necessity but out of a desire to explore a different path. That’s where the paradox of choice comes in.
When faced with two equally good options, the decision becomes harder. It’s not about escaping something bad but about stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing the unknown. Making that choice requires courage—to leave behind the familiar and take a leap into the uncertain.
Charting a new course is never easy. It takes time to adjust, often six to twelve months, sometimes more. For us, I’m hopeful that with time, new routines, and the gradual unfolding of life in Colorado, things will get easier.
So, here’s to the wild ones who make brave choices when there isn’t a clear right or wrong—just the promise of something different. Growth and learning lie in every new experience, even if it’s uncomfortable.
What choices have you made (or could you make) between two seemingly good options? What helped you navigate that decision?
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Hi Jenn, as someone who's done 18 relocations across 10 countries and navigated through a myriad of lifequakes I can safely say I've curated a very personal head-heart-gut alignment. Thank you for subscribing to Carer Mentor. As soon as I read your About Page where you state 'Empathy and Kindness' I knew I needed to read more and subscribe in kind. xo I look forward to being connected, sharing and soundboarding thoughts.